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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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Sex either or I like both sometimes it's nice to just take control and be dominant and other times it's nice to feel desired. I love when she take control for oral sex any time any place it's just damn sexy.
It depends on what mood I'm in.. I get a better ending when he initiates it.. Lol so I prefer him to do it first.. But I do it also:)
I like both but only if I know I can initiate it when my love is receptive and is all about experiencing the heightened sensation of waking up sexually aroused by my initiative..
I like it both ways, because when he does it its hot and he makes me feel wanted, but I guess I like it a little more when I initiate it because I know when I'm in the mood so I can take control and let him know I'm ready
I do love when she gets naughty and initiates it but I can't help but get it started when she's around me..shes soo damn sexy.
I like it both ways. Depends on what mood I am in!!
I love it when she initiates it. It lets me know she still loves me and wants me more than ever. besides I love our foreplay as much as the sex itself. it is also the only way to tell if she's in the mood. lol
Either way but I am usually the one to start it
Because you are the one that usually wants it lol. Unless the military keeps you away for so long then it's me that starts it.
Female, 36-40 years, Married, Bi | Jul 15, 2012
Female, 36-40 years, Married, Bi | Jul 15, 2012
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I prefer him to initiate!
Either way, but I like it when she dose cause I know she wants it
Both! Depending on what mood I'm in.
I like it to be initiated on me ;) but I don't mind initiating
I get more excited when she initiates it. I miss it actually.
I prefer her to initiate it. That way she more into it and enjoying it more. Nothing sexier then her grabbing me and f ing my brains out!!!
I love wen my honey initiates coz it makes me fel of being wanted...Love u sexy..!
I want him to because he doesn't make me feel like he wants to have sex WITH ME he just wants to have sex if I initiate it. But of I am confident I love waking him up with a surprise or starting something when he lasts expects it
Female, 36-40 years, Married, CA, US | Jul 16, 2012
Female, 36-40 years, Married, CA, US | Jul 16, 2012
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Female, 31-35 years, Engaged | Jul 14, 2012