Both but I wouldn't mind it being initiated

I prefer it when my partner is the one taking initiative, i have been the one doing that since early on in the relationship and therefore im the only one who gets rejected. I need a break where he is the one initiating and then i think it should be equal.

Depends on the maturity of the relationship. Initially males should pursue, both sexes are wired for that scenario. As a relationship progresses I think it should be on the female. A lot of men are always 'on' and sex doesn't necessarily have to be emotional. Its more efficient to notify the partner that's pretty much ready to go at the drop of a hat, rather than let that partner constantly check (which gets tiring for both parties). Females should be more direct and flexible (pun intended)

I prefer to have sex initiated. I hate being rejected or the possibility of it (I'm tired, Not now, etc.) and if it happens, it's a bruise to my ego and security. I'm better at initiating it more now but, it does take a lot of prep.

BOTH! Honestly I don't mind...something immediate and spontaneous. so yeah I love initiated especially if i'm in the mood.

I rather her say something cause I'm so scared I Dnt know why but I drop hints like I'm READY LOL

I guess i get nervous & dont want to do it wrong or b rejected so i dont initiate much

I start it off

I like it best mutual but do LOVE when he initiates it... having been the one who mostly tried (and didn't always succeed) previously, it is nice to feel desired, wanted and craved... but mutual is important and I definitely have NO issue initiating if I don't expect rejection.

Depends... I think it should be 50/50... As of right now, I would love for her to initiate. It would do wonders for my confidence and self image to have her desire me enough to initiate such things.

I may be an initiator with many things in my life but sex is not one I them. I try hard to do it but most of the time I fail. I have tried to explain this so it is clear it's not you, I hope you really know this and I hope I have gotten a little better. I love u and I guess with some things I can be a little old fashioned. xoxo

Both really. :)

Both! But most of the time it's him who does

Depends on my mood. But I do not want to initiate all the time!!

Ela diz que eu sou muito frisky. Mas adoro quando é ela que tem a idéia :)