Both!!! It makes you feel desired when it is initiated so I love him to initiate. But I want him to know how much I want him too. So I need to initiate also!!!

That's a tough one. It depends on what is going on in my world at the time. A balance is always good.

Initiated for me, I try to initiate it but he doesn't pick up on my hints

I think both should I don't mind starting it but a good sign is all ways good

Balance is always good but it's also good to make your mate feel wanted. The more you do, the more your mate wants to do. Thats reciprocity. Unbalance isn't fun & the person who's usually initiating can wind up feeling like their being tolerated.

Both of us <3

I will always initiate if I know there is no risk of rejection, but a healthy balance is good.

Either is fine, as long as we have sex! :)

I like when it's initiated because she knows how easy it is to get me to take my pants off. I'm down for it 24/7 so when she wants it, she knows it's waiting for her every time. I also like to rub on her n get her and initiate.

Both ways but I do think it is so hot when she makes the first move on me at the same time I love taking control and ripping her pants off so I'd say it's mutual :)

In all honesty I love it when he gets into it. Pushs me onto the counter or on the wall. Takes over and is so hot that there is no stopping him. Though I also dig taking charge, and driving him crazy. Just like everything in our relationship I love our balence

Most of the time it's nice to have the freedom to initiate a loving session whenever I'm ready and in the mood. My husband is very respectful of this and I really appreciate it. Although it would be nice for him to initiate it sometimes, to sweep me off my feet and have him control the situation. I'd like to see him get really excited to have me and make it all about himself. That would be a huge turn on!

have it initiated for me! makes me feel desired... remember that!

Both. I know that it is probably a turn on for him when I initiate. I'm also fortunate because he NEVER turns me down makes a girl feel desired.
I wish sometimes when he initiates sex he would do it in more of a take charge kind of way.

I like both but I miss when we first started how he would initiate things ...alot more often it seems like..don't wait for me...I want u to come to me....touch me like your scared not knowing if that's what I want ..nice and slow.. like it's the first time all over...