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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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I do love it when she gets naughty and initiates it but sometimes i just can't help myself when she's around me..shes too damn sexy not to get nekked with heeeeey....
Depends on what mood I am in. Sometimes I prefer one over the other and other times it is flipped.
He does but that's cause it's all he wants at times. He doesn't seem interested in me as a person.
I am it's just I'm do horny dear....
Male, 36-40 years, Married, NY, US | Jul 17, 2012
Male, 36-40 years, Married, NY, US | Jul 17, 2012
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I like it when she does; although it's amazing to see it in her eyes when I can get her going...
I prefer when he initiates it. Sometimes I feel shy or not feeling sexy so when he does it makes me more confident
It don't matter to me, as long as we get down to it!
I like him to start. I makes me feel so sexy when he starts the kissing and stuff, I get turned on in a second.
I always have to. I'm dying for her to do it a couple times I miss that sexy lustful look she has when we're about to start
both :)
Both. I like it if she initiates because then I know that she is in the mood. One of my greatest fears is when I initiate and get shut down - I hate the rejection from someone so close. If, however, I do initiate sex and she is receptive, it is great because I feel more in control.
I love when he sweeps me up and makes it known he wants me, but it's just so fun to see the look in his eyes when I get him going :).
Come to me papi
Ha ha. Loved this quote "papi". Had to pick this one ;)
Male, >50 years, Engaged, DL, IN | Jul 18, 2012
Male, >50 years, Engaged, DL, IN | Jul 18, 2012
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Both. I love to see his expression when I just take charge and pounce in him :) but I also love to be just as surprised. By him surprising me and catching me off guard it shows me he is still attracted to me and finds me irresistible and has to have me at that very moment. There is nothing hotter!!!
Depends on the mood, but I love both.
Initiate sometimes but I
Like to feel desired so both but more if she starts
Like to feel desired so both but more if she starts
