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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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I think I get most aroused if I feel like I am the one initiating it, it doesn't matter if I actually am or whether I'm just being made to feel that way somehow
I like it either way but waking up to a blowjob is the preferred option! ;)
For me.
I like to start but some times i wanted it to be started
Both of us... No creo en que para Uno sea mejor que otro, ahora pero de que el siempre tiene mas iniciativa que yo eso esta claro :) aunque raro yo digo q no Jeje
Me gusta iniciarlo pero de vez en cuando es bueno que me sorprendan
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Jul 26, 2012
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Jul 26, 2012
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BOTH. <3
I prefer it both ways
I like it either way. Sometimes I like surprising Matt by laying on a table with little clothing and other times I like him starting it. I may not always be in the mood to begin with, but soon enough that changes.lol
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Male, 31-35 years, Dating, Gay, MI, US | Jul 25, 2012
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, Gay, MI, US | Jul 25, 2012
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Yeah, it's gotta be both. Otherwise it gets annoying if only one person always starts it.
Doesn't phase me, I like it done to me
Though, shows she would want it too, but then I take over lol
Though, shows she would want it too, but then I take over lol
I used to like it initiated, but now I like to initiate. I find it really hot to be able to take her when I want her and I think she likes it that way as well. I am a bit shy about asking for blow jobs though. I think that is something that she has to want to do in order for me to enjoy it.
I like when we get sexy simultaneously
Switch back and forth. Otherwise it becomes a boring routine.
Both, but nice when you know they are craving you at a particular moment;0)
I think it's super hot when my baby initiates. =]
