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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?
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I enjoy both equally.
Having it initiated is hot
Initiation of physical intimacy? Both. But it's hot when a guy takes control.
Initiated upon. I like a dominate man in the bedroom since i tend to be dominate every where else.
Initiated for me, makes me feel wanted.
Yes!
Initiated. I can't remember the last time he did.
Both. I like it when he initiates it. But I can do a well good job at it too.
I think it's human nature to always prefer being pursued...everyone likes feeling wanted. But 50/50 would be nice!
Both! Though I bet he'd appreciate it if I initiated it more often.
Both. It would be great to have her come get it sometimes. It is never a question of if I want it or not or if I am too tiered or sore. If she came and got it it would be no matter what
Both
You can't prefer both..
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Jan 27, 2013
Male, 36-40 years, Dating | Jan 27, 2013
I can do whatever I want bitch
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Jan 27, 2013
Female, 31-35 years, Dating | Jan 27, 2013
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Initiate - it turns out good either way though
Have it initiated for me
I think there has to be a very good balance of this. I love it being initiated but I also like to initiate. I want him to know I desire him just as much as he desires me. I don't ever want it to get boring and become routine... So if one of us is in the mood it should be initiated, instead of always waiting for the other to initiate!
