Icebreakers
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What's the one argument your parents had that you would try to avoid with your partner?
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They fought about money a lot and didn't trust each other. Let's not fight about that stuff, and let's trust each other.
useless arguments about nothing important
I haven't witness my parents argue, they have a lot of deep and sometimes heated debates but they always come to a resolutions, I hope I can do the same in my relationships.
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they didnt' argue. Ever. They were so "that generation". All I ever saw was them getting along, so I assumed that that was what you did when you were married...you simply got along...about EVERYTHING. (Boy was I wrong)
Arguments about money
why my dad doesn't spend as much time with me as he does my sister... kids deserve equal attention, but i know my dad's there whenever i need him
Never heard my parents argue???
money issues
I don't know much about my parents' relationship but I would imagine they fought a lot because they eventually separated, and it must have been bad enough for my father to lose contact with all of us.
Jealousy
I try hard not to be :(
Female, >50 years, Married, FL, US | Dec 07, 2011
Female, >50 years, Married, FL, US | Dec 07, 2011
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About raising the kids..can't think of anything. As for life, can't think of one we haven't had! Ha!
mentioning the D word (Divorce)
We would need to be married first for the D word to bug me :)
Female, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Nov 30, 2011
Female, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Nov 30, 2011
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Male, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Nov 30, 2011
Male, >50 years, Engaged, CA, US | Nov 30, 2011
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Just general loudness (resorting to raised voices/yelling far too often) and unpleasantness around the house.. I am very conscious of never letting that be the case in my future home, and not having such a feeling of a hierarchical family structure.
I hate divorce and WILL NOT do it again!!
