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Is it healthy to keep secrets from your partner?
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Ideally no, but our culture rewards deceitfulness to get ahead, so it's hard to go against the grain because it's so instilled.
Absolutely not. They are another half of you. Whatever you know and do, they should be aware too. Lies can destroy the relationship. Just one would be enough.
No, secrets must be told to achieve optimal trust
no, but sometimes I'm afraid to share everything
i am simple and nice and i want to meet some one that is kind, some one that will sharething with me as one, some one that is honest.
No but some things are better left unsaid. Like previous relationships
Absolutely not. They are another half of you. Whatever you know and do, they should be aware too. Lies can destroy the relationship. Just one would be enough.
What kind of secret are we talking about? Secretly have children in another state kind of secret or likes to watch infomercials kind of secret? Overall, I'd say no, it's not healthy, but not everything has to be shared, either.
Never
No
I try to do but I feel that there are many barriers between the two
No, unless it is a secret from a girlfriend ;) xx
No nada
Only if the secret is a surprise for them
no
