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Is it healthy to keep secrets from your partner?
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No, unless it is about a surprise. Then yeah.
No it is not healthy
Not unless they are a surprise!
In general no. A secret to plan a good surprise for you partner, yes. Any type of personal communication regarding your partner's hopes, dreams, future plans, intimate details should be shared openly. Confiding in friends is fine as long as it's not INSTEAD of talking to your spouse. Your spouse needs to be the one person you trust the most and share the good, bad and ugly of who you are with first and foremost. That's the definition of an intimate PARTNER.
That's a dumb question. Of course not!!!
no
Absolutely not.
Sometimes
Hell no!!!
No, if something important happens I want to know about it :) Even if it's unimportant it's nice to know. However, some things are meant to be in the past.
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NO!
Secret secrets are no fun. Secret secrets hurt someone..
Absolutely not! Secrets can be very hurtful! Unless of course your keeping a surprise from her or something. I WANT to tell her everything! And she wants to listen.
Yes I think so
