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Would you want to know if your partner was cheating on you? Why or why not?
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if it's just a stupid drunk thing with someone i wouldn't ever have to see or interact with, probably not actually. if it's more emotional than that, then yes.
Yes. I'm not some place holder for you while you go off and have fun with other guys.
Well I'm not. You complete me...if you'd change your silly picture on here ;)
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, CA, US | Sep 19, 2011
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, CA, US | Sep 19, 2011
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Yes, so I can kick his ass.
no. it'd break my heart and confirm my suspicions about me and love.
Yes! First- to identify the reason and determine what circumstances led to the cheating and second because honesty and trust are essential to relationships and personal character. Relationships depend on trust and trust depends on honesty.
yes, because sometimes cannot figuer it out what he thinking
Absolutely, if the relationship is over for one of you the other deserves to know..
id better know because she would get kicked to the curb
yes...i deserve to know
Yes, because it would be a sign that things aren't working in the relationship
Yes, I would also prefer if she knew that I was also, or even contemplating it. If a person is cheating it means that there is something missing in the relationship. If that issue is addressed before the cheating begins then the whole situation can be avoided. Working on a relationship is harder than going out and cheating, but it is worth every bit of work that is put into it.
Agree with you a million times
Female, >50 years, Married, CO, US | Oct 21, 2011
Female, >50 years, Married, CO, US | Oct 21, 2011
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yes. because that means he doesnt love me enough to only be with me
Yes so that we could get to the bottom of it and work throw it I love u Jen
Yes! That is the only dealbreaker for us so i'd want to know as soon as possible.
The only ways I'd want to know-
A- "I'm sorry, it was awful, I shouldn't have done it. I know we aren't doing well but it was a terrible thing to do. I'm leaving now."
B- "It was the worst mistake of my life. *Insert big explanation and apology here*"
If I ever hear "Well, if you would have/hadn't done... Then I wouldn't have." again, I will slaughter them in front of me.
A- "I'm sorry, it was awful, I shouldn't have done it. I know we aren't doing well but it was a terrible thing to do. I'm leaving now."
B- "It was the worst mistake of my life. *Insert big explanation and apology here*"
If I ever hear "Well, if you would have/hadn't done... Then I wouldn't have." again, I will slaughter them in front of me.
