Yes. I feel honestly and communication are crucial in a relationship. If my partner has the urge to cheat, there are some major fundamental issues we need to work on.

Yes because she expects the same from me.

Oh this is hard.. A big part of me never ever wants to know as I cannot fathom the hurt of such batrail.. But in reality I would want to know, you cant live a lie forever...

I don't know... sometimes I think I truly wouldn't want to know if it didn't affect our relationship. I assume that over the long haul there are bound to be SOME secrets... I would trust that he would come to me if i was doing something wrong or if he had made a self-discovery that would affect the course of our time together.

It depends. If she cares about me, I don't have to ask her, she will confess to me sooner or later.

Yes. Did you use a condom?

Hate to see it, but I kind of agree. But really how could an affair NOT AFFECT YOU it sure would affect the intimacy with your spouse I think?

yes. That way I know I dont satisfy him and he doesnt have to sneak and see her. I have the option to deal with it or to not deal with it.

Let's just say lets hope that scenario NEVER happens...

good question....probably not....If it's not affecting our relationship or hurting our kids....finding out may end splitting the home up and it would kill me not to see my wife and kids everyday....plus if I go to prison my kids will suffer.

yes I would want to know. I would want to know why she had the desire to cheat in the first place. Obviously something is wrong with the relationship, if she feels the need to cheat.

My wife is free to do what she wishes as long as I know about it. We don't consider it cheating unless it is being lied or covered up, as such I don't expect it to ever happen, we are totally honest with each other.

Yes, I want honesty in a relationship. I know he never would though.

yes so i could handle the situation properly...

yes, so i could get even