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Would you want to know if your partner was cheating on you? Why or why not?
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Yes. Immediately. Actually I'd probably rather know before they went out and cheated--I wouldn't be happy about it, but I'm not unreasonable. If they wanted someone else, I'd want to end our relationship first. I don't want to be betrayed and I don't want to continue giving myself to someone who doesn't want me and me alone.
This wouldn't happen, but in some alternate universe, I would want to know. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where that was going on.
Damn right it wouldn't happen.
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, Bi, MO, US | Aug 23, 2011
Female, 31-35 years, Dating, Bi, MO, US | Aug 23, 2011
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No, but I'd like to know if I had an inkling it were going on. If I confronted him I'd want the truth, otherwise don't let me know about it.
i don't think i could handle it
I would. I would need the conformation.
I would, but it would destroy me.
Absolutely, no question. I have a sensitivity to this subject having been cheated on before and this is an absolute deal breaker. The amount of damage done by this one choice affects the relationship forever. The pain that comes from this betrayal is deep and permanent and I would want to have the choice to end the relationship so as to spare further heartache.
Yes. I don't even like thinking about it, but I would of course want to know. Best to keep the air clear.
Yes because that would change the dynamic of our relationship &I'd like to know when we are beginning on the path of non-monogamy.
I can't see that happening with either of us, thankfully.
I would want to know. I'd rather them tell me themself rather than i find out from someone else.
Yes, so I could confront it. I would never turn a blind eye to that.
Although it would kill me, yes.
Yes, I'd want to know. That's one thing I demand honesty about, even if I'm not going to like the answer.
YES!!!!! i want honesty always.
