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Do you care more about pleasing your partner or speaking the truth? What is one instance of this?
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i say how i feel even if he gets all mad... bt i cant control saying what im thinking. sometimes i try to shut up so i dont bring drama to the relationship

Speaking the truth

Both. Depending on the situation, sometimes they need to hear the cold hard truth, but other times, when it's not serious, it's sometimes better to please them but not lie to them.. If that makes any sense

Speaking the truth. Honesty is the best policy!

Pleasing my Partner...i hate making decisions,so i feel if i let her make em well be happy

Pleasing my partner...not always easy to do...precisely why I change my mind a lot :o)

Truth. I dare not share here.

Mmm maybe both in little ways !!

I care about honesty. I don't have an example but I would rather say or hear the truth than live in the dark or let my husband live there.

More times than I can remember, I have spoken the truth only to back pedal and have to explain myself, sometimes it's just easier to give the pleasant answer.

I have to answer both. Sometimes I dont want to create an arguement and go with the flow, other times I'm a little rudely honest.

Speaking the truth. This usually comes back to haunt me but the truth is more important than his feelings bcuz i cant always make him feel better i cant fix the truth.

Speaking the truth. I really don't like liars and I would prefer he knew he could trust me because I would never lie

I think she knows intend to speak my mind a bit much before thinking about what I just said, but I do try to make her feel good!

I prefer honesty, even if it hurts to hear it.
