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Do you care more about pleasing your partner or speaking the truth? What is one instance of this?
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Pleasing him.
The truth.but it's not always taken well *sigh
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Truth but as nicely as possible
We're still in the early stages of our relationship so I always feel the need to please him.
Speaking the truth because I don't want to have resentment towards him or not say how I truly feel
Both. I want to please him. But i want to tell the truth too
Both
My sensitivity filter is growing every day... I was raised to be brutality forward but her and her family are way more sensitive. I try
I do both!
I care about both. I try to speak the truth but in a pleasant way.
I care about both!
Pleasing of course but I know that honesty is one of the main things that keeps a relationship going so I think that would be an important part too so I say both
Speaking the truth. Cuz I want her to know that I do care about what she asks me about, particularly, in reference to her clothing choices when she's shopping.
Pleasing when it comes to things I don't care about like decorating, but saying the truth when it has to do with money.
