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Do you care more about pleasing your partner or speaking the truth? What is one instance of this?
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Speaking the truth. Because when I'm not honest it doesn't please him & when I am honest of course it pleases him bc that's all he asks for.
Both are important. I speak the truth but try to do something nice for him like make him breakfast on the weekend.
Both are important.
The truth may hurt sometimes, and it does. I have not seen any lie that has ever pleased her. So to please my bride it is necessary to be truthful even when the truth hurts. Accepting a brutal truth is better that living a lie anyday!
I prefer pleasing her but i tend to tell her the truth instead which gets her mad jaja :)
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Pleasing & the truth are important!
Both
Pleasing him. I don't like to do or say anything that makes him unhappy. I do need to work on speaking out, and not hiding things, but its hard to.
Pleasing my partner. One day I hid my emotions really well because she needed it, she needed someone to love her and there to be no problems. I swallowed what happened to me and kept her happy and was a goofball all day. We went to bed happy and I honestly think I helped her, even if I was a little sad after she fell asleep. It helped me as much as it helped her, but that's the closest I'll ever get to a lie.
I care about both of them equally
eu acho que quando falamos a verdade estamos agradando verdadeiramente,
The truth makes him happy.
The truth is more important that flattery. As Oscar Wilde said, flattery is telling someone what they already think of themselves.
