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Do you care more about pleasing your partner or speaking the truth? What is one instance of this?
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I prefer pleasing her but i tend to tell her the truth instead which gets her mad jaja :)
eu acho que quando falamos a verdade estamos agradando verdadeiramente,
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Both are important. I speak the truth but try to do something nice for him like make him breakfast on the weekend.
Both
The truth may hurt sometimes, and it does. I have not seen any lie that has ever pleased her. So to please my bride it is necessary to be truthful even when the truth hurts. Accepting a brutal truth is better that living a lie anyday!
Pleasing him. I don't like to do or say anything that makes him unhappy. I do need to work on speaking out, and not hiding things, but its hard to.
Speaking the truth. Because when I'm not honest it doesn't please him & when I am honest of course it pleases him bc that's all he asks for.
Both are important.
The truth is more important that flattery. As Oscar Wilde said, flattery is telling someone what they already think of themselves.
Pleasing & the truth are important!
Pleasing my partner. One day I hid my emotions really well because she needed it, she needed someone to love her and there to be no problems. I swallowed what happened to me and kept her happy and was a goofball all day. We went to bed happy and I honestly think I helped her, even if I was a little sad after she fell asleep. It helped me as much as it helped her, but that's the closest I'll ever get to a lie.
Truth
The truth makes him happy.
I care about both of them equally
