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Do you care more about pleasing your partner or speaking the truth? What is one instance of this?
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Of course I always want to please my man. But honesty always comes first. Lying by omission is still lying.
Truth, I don't want to lie to please her, it never ends up good
Speaking the truth should please her more in the long run. But my judgment of the truth needs to be coming from a good place. Once I was really crabby and complained about an evening that I didn't enjoy. I was being judgmental and didn't really support my partner.
Both. I always speak the truth no matter what and he knows that. But pleasing him is a major factor in my relationship. I always make sure my man is happy :)
Truth, always. I believe in the long run it will please him more
Truth
Truth. I have yet to be sad that I was open with him. I know that in the beginning, we were a bit insecure about hearing "the truth" about people we'd cared for in the past, but I have also been honest with him about never feeling the way I do about him with anyone else. Sometimes, even putting yourself out there to say something kind can feel risky...but worth it.
Generally I try to please you, which can get me into trouble cause I know your big on telling the truth. But most the time it's just small things. I'd rather see you happy then let something trivial bring you down.
- I care about pleasing my partner because if he isn't happy I'm not happy. But that doesn't mean I can't speak the truth at the same time.
Pleasing him. Just this morning I asked him if he liked my hair up or down.
Pleasing my partner, sometimes the dinner be like blah! But I power through it to not be ungrateful
lol whatever better than ur homeboy nachos u made one time
Female, 41-50 years, Married | Dec 11, 2012
Female, 41-50 years, Married | Dec 11, 2012
Yes homeboy nachos I'm bringing it back
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Dec 11, 2012
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Dec 11, 2012
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Telling the truth. I stay true to the qualities I have an believe in, if being honest and telling the truth is going to upset someone well that's just life, and I will be truthful regardless, rather have morals then try to save face and be known as a liar
I think the truth is so important i wouldn't deliberately say something to hurt another but it sometimes works out that way.
Speaking the truth cuz in the end u regret it if u don't say it
The truth! Even if the truth gets me into trouble.
