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Do you care more about pleasing your partner or speaking the truth? What is one instance of this?
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The truth, we want to always be truthful.
Telling the truth
speaking the truth cause speaking the truth can help your relationship last long and strong
I dont understand. I dont see how lying would make someone happy or how being honest would be hurtful. Dont get it.
Pleasing my partner. there is little that is important enough to argue about. If I argue about it it is important to me.
I always tell the truth I cant remember an instance but anyone who knowa me, knows I always tell the truth
Pleasing him by finding a nice way to tell him the truth
Both, equally. Never be dishonest, because it WILL eventually be discovered at some point. And never stop pleasing your partner. Both very important pieces to a long lasting relationship.
Both!
I try to please her. I know she would like me to be more open. But I care about her and would never do anything intentionally hurt her.
Pleasing her its sooooo important but I speak the truth
Pleasing my partner but when the truth needs to be spoken I speak it. One instance would be if an outfit looks good or not.
Used to be about pleasing him, now it's all about truth.
Honesty is a key aspect of our relationship. Sometimes being honest with each other means not pleasing the other person, but without that honesty we'd fall apart.
Pleasing my partner
