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Do you care more about pleasing your partner or speaking the truth? What is one instance of this?
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The truth! Even if the truth gets me into trouble.
I think the truth is so important i wouldn't deliberately say something to hurt another but it sometimes works out that way.
Both
I prefer pleasing her but i tend to tell her the truth instead which gets her mad jaja :)
Pleasing my partner. One day I hid my emotions really well because she needed it, she needed someone to love her and there to be no problems. I swallowed what happened to me and kept her happy and was a goofball all day. We went to bed happy and I honestly think I helped her, even if I was a little sad after she fell asleep. It helped me as much as it helped her, but that's the closest I'll ever get to a lie.
Telling the truth. I stay true to the qualities I have an believe in, if being honest and telling the truth is going to upset someone well that's just life, and I will be truthful regardless, rather have morals then try to save face and be known as a liar
Truth
The truth is more important that flattery. As Oscar Wilde said, flattery is telling someone what they already think of themselves.
The truth may hurt sometimes, and it does. I have not seen any lie that has ever pleased her. So to please my bride it is necessary to be truthful even when the truth hurts. Accepting a brutal truth is better that living a lie anyday!
I care about both of them equally
Both are important.
Both are important. I speak the truth but try to do something nice for him like make him breakfast on the weekend.
Pleasing & the truth are important!
The truth makes him happy.
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