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Do you care more about pleasing your partner or speaking the truth? What is one instance of this?
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Well sometimes I have to hold back how I feel because I'm crazy.
I'd like to please him but I'm all about speaking the truth. Not just with him but with everyone. Its important.
you should always speak the truth no matter whAt
Depends
I don't like conflict so on that hand pleasing him
On the other had he and I are always honest with each other and I can have some pretty strong opinions- so the truth
I don't like conflict so on that hand pleasing him
On the other had he and I are always honest with each other and I can have some pretty strong opinions- so the truth
The truth if
They
Love u they would rather hear it if its not the truth it's a lie
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Love u they would rather hear it if its not the truth it's a lie
They should go hand in hand - I've had honesty issues (means I'm a Liar)so I haven't spoken the truth - by nature I want people to like me and I still tend to be an avoider so I default to pleasing my partner - I can't always see beyond Truth itself is pleasing....
Speaking the truth to avoid all possible conflict:)
Well, for us, pleasing the other and telling the truth tend to go hand in hand. We're always giving each other our opinions, but that's good because we care what the other has to say. Occasionally, I check my phrasing before saying something out loud, but that's something I do with everybody, as part of "think before you speak".
Luckily for me pleasing her is more often than not he same as the truth. I actually can't think of when that's not the case.
Well speaking the truth is pleasing him. Lol.
Often times I just try my best not to hurt him
The truth. I want to be honest always. You cant always say what a person wants to hear but if you want to grow together you have to be honest. Not pick or nag but share things that you dislike. We arent always aware of our bad qualities or habits.
Truth is or should be pleasing
