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Do you care more about pleasing your partner or speaking the truth? What is one instance of this?
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I will always tell the truth but I will also move mountains to make her happy
I care about everything involving our relationship
I prefer speaking the truth, but I have to admit that tact is important. Part of this is because I'm an entrepreneur, I like doing things and getting things done. Beating around the bush can get in the way of getting things done. Maybe I should've been born in Israel, I'd fit in fine in Tel Aviv. Telling your boyfriend he has wrinkles or that he needs to cut a few pounds is going to cause a lot of bad things down the road though, don't do it!
I want to always please him, but I wast to be truthful at the same time.
It depends
Speaking the truth. I am scared about him going away to training but I know its a necessary evil, but its just going to add more distance than what separates us now. But I know he needs to do it for him and for us.
The truth. We haven't had an instance if this nature yet.
Telling the truth, I've hurt one to many times. So I tell him exactly how I feel.
Speaking the truth of course.
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I always tell the truth like when my wife looks good I tell her
Truth, I will tell him straight up if something is wrong :)
I really get a satisfaction from pleasing her.. But I wouldn't lie. I'll do everything I can to make her happy and be truthful at the same time
Speaking the truth. I feel like the truth is always better no matter how much it might hurt. There was a point in our relationship when I wasn't sure if I wanted kids and I told her so that I could be honest and give her an opportunity to move on to someone who did and it was hard to tell her that, but she deserved the truth
It depends on the seriousness of the issue
Female, 41-50 years, Dating | Apr 25, 2012