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Do you care more about pleasing your partner or speaking the truth? What is one instance of this?
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More times than I can remember, I have spoken the truth only to back pedal and have to explain myself, sometimes it's just easier to give the pleasant answer.
I care about honesty. I don't have an example but I would rather say or hear the truth than live in the dark or let my husband live there.
Speaking the truth is very important but sometimes the other persons feelings have to be your first priority.
Speaking the truth. This usually comes back to haunt me but the truth is more important than his feelings bcuz i cant always make him feel better i cant fix the truth.
Speaking the truth. Honesty is the best policy!
Mmm maybe both in little ways !!
Speaking the truth
Speaking the truth. I really don't like liars and I would prefer he knew he could trust me because I would never lie
It depends. Being truthful is one of the most important things in a relationship but I always want to please my husband. I will always tell the truth even if it may hurt him. It's important that he trust me and I will always be there to comfort him IF the truth were to hurt him.
i say how i feel even if he gets all mad... bt i cant control saying what im thinking. sometimes i try to shut up so i dont bring drama to the relationship
Both. Depending on the situation, sometimes they need to hear the cold hard truth, but other times, when it's not serious, it's sometimes better to please them but not lie to them.. If that makes any sense
I think she knows intend to speak my mind a bit much before thinking about what I just said, but I do try to make her feel good!
I prefer honesty, even if it hurts to hear it.
Truth. I dare not share here.
i don't believe that i care about one more than the other. I try to speak the truth when it's necessary, but don't think that means that i care any less about pleasing her. i still wouldn't want to hurt her in any way. I would never tell her a lie just to please her because i think it's usually self-defeating.
