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Do you prefer to initiate sex or have it initiated for you?

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Both are fine, but it's nice to feel wanted when someone else initiates

I agree. It depends on the mood, and the moment.


Both. But I really like it when he takes charge. I'm kinda the aggressor period so it's nice to give up control to him.


I have absolutely no problem initiating sex when I want it, and if I'm not in the mood that can usually very easily change lol so.

have it initiated

Don't mind
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Nov 06, 2015

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Most of the time I would rather start it

Both and always and crazy passionate every day every room every position. Gimme gimme gimme

I prefer my partner to initiate. Because I am afraid getting hurt because of rejection from her. But if I'm very turned on, I don't mind initiating as Long as I'm sure I won't be rejected.

I'll do both. I've been lazy lately though and haven't been initiating it.

Sometimes I like to initiate it and sometimes I like it when you do. It's fun both ways to me. ;) I know that you want me to initiate it more than I do. :( I can also be gun shy for reasons we have talked about. <:(

Initiated for me and also it depends on my mood I guess
Depends on my mood.
Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating | Feb 23, 2015

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