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![Male, 36-40 years, Married, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
We usually do this together
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating, WI, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Gonna say me, cause I'm a control freak but really Idk
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
We haven't made any big decisions (that affect the relationship) without consulting the other first. It's definitely a two-way street, I'd feel wrong making a huge decision without his input, and I know he feels the same.
![Male, 41-50 years, Dating, GA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Me of course lol I have to decide what I'm eating in order for you to know 😉
![Female, 41-50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
We make them together as we have always done for 22 years. We make our best decisions together - in fact, our only bad decisions were ones we made separately.
![Male, 41-50 years, Married, TX, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Yup. We make all of our big decisions together. I'm curious, though. Have I ever made a decision without you that you thought of as big decision?
Male, 41-50 years, Married, TX, US | Feb 07, 2014
Male, 41-50 years, Married, TX, US | Feb 07, 2014
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![Male, <20 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
We communicate and decide on things together
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating, MB, CA](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Lol Matty? But uh he has to get my approval 😉
![Male, 41-50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Usually we share it
![Male, 26-30 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I don't know...but usually I am readily making big decisions.
![Female, 41-50 years, Domestically Partnered, Bi](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Equal I think. Wow it's nice to finally think and feel like equals
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Not me. Change my mind too often.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Jointly but I tend to have my way if it's important.
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
We will together!
![Female, >50 years, Dating, ENG, GB](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I think we pretty much share those things, although we have yet to make any really important decisions.
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Nick, which is ok as long as he takes my opinion into consideration. I'm better at small decisions, like what to have for dinner :P
Female, 36-40 years, Married, Bi | Feb 17, 2014