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Icebreakers
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Who in your relationship is more likely to make the big decisions?
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![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Both.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
my wife makes the big decisions, I'm happy as long as she's happy.
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating, Gay](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
We actually make big decisions together .
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating, OH, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
both of us
![Male, 36-40 years, Engaged, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Me totally. Sometimes she needs convincing.
![Male, 41-50 years, Married, VA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I make the BIG decisions but my wife makes MORE decisions which is just as important.
![Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
He is
![Female, 41-50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Definitely me. Hubby is more of a go-with-the-flow person.
![Male, >50 years, Married, VA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I am. But She has VETO powers.
![Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
My husband... and I like it that way..
![Female, 36-40 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
We make them together.
![Female, 36-40 years, Married, NY, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
I like to think we discuss and share the big decisions
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Both but Adam is usually the one to initiate
![Female, 31-35 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
We like sharing thoughts :) to make the 'right' decision ♥
![Male, >50 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I think we make them together. She is more analytical most of the time but we are a team!