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How do you handle anger? Has it ever caused a problem in your life?
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Yes it has I lash out in ways that hurt me in the long run... Or go gut drunk come home argue with the only person that has my back. Make her feel like shit because I do. I feel like shit because I know this. It's a new day a new me lots of changes to come starting yesterday!!!!
I usually bottled it, and yeah in the past it's fermented into other emotions
I withdraw and hold grudges. Yes it is a problem. Just ask my wife.
Walking away b4 I get really upset
Ik kan er nu goed mee omgaan maar als Ikea niet goed voel bv nerveus, gekwetsts, verdriet dan kan ik heel naar uit de hoek komen en kan dan mijn boosheid niet keren.. Bleef er dan in zitten. Dit gaat nu veel beter
Mine not so much, but his sometimes gets a little over the top
Sometimes I suppress it briefly but it always comes out. I'm not a yeller though. I exhibit more of a cold anger.
With an emphasis on 'cold'!
Male, >50 years, Married, DC, US | Jul 22, 2013
Male, >50 years, Married, DC, US | Jul 22, 2013
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I don't get angry often so I don't deal with anger well :/
Many problems from both my anger and others. In personal relationships always remember these are people you love.
Not very well!! Caused me many problems yes
My whole family has anger problems. Violence and abuse was (and sometimes still is) an issue in my family. Even though I was victim to the abuse, I do have anger issues but they only ever arise with my brother. There has not been any other time when I've had a problem with them, and I'm really good with controlling myself now.
I shut down
Mope a bit I guess
Idk I don't think I get angry that often
I do get frustrated really easily though
And when that happens I'm likely to kick or hit something (never ever a living thing)
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, Bi | Jul 01, 2013
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, Bi | Jul 01, 2013
My once kicked a whole in the hallway wall :p
While holding baby Jeff and I.
Male, 26-30 years, Dating, Bi, CA, US | Jul 01, 2013
Male, 26-30 years, Dating, Bi, CA, US | Jul 01, 2013
My mom*
Male, 26-30 years, Dating, Bi, CA, US | Jul 01, 2013
Male, 26-30 years, Dating, Bi, CA, US | Jul 01, 2013
Hole* gosh darn
Male, 26-30 years, Dating, Bi, CA, US | Jul 01, 2013
Male, 26-30 years, Dating, Bi, CA, US | Jul 01, 2013
Haha I remember that
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, Bi | Jul 02, 2013
Male, 31-35 years, Dating, Bi | Jul 02, 2013
Soooo... Jeff's door is... No more as of today.
Male, 26-30 years, Dating, Bi, CA, US | Jul 02, 2013
Male, 26-30 years, Dating, Bi, CA, US | Jul 02, 2013
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Im a screamer but I can control my anger. I try to think rationally.
When doesn't anger cause issues haha
I'm the worst with anger......I get silent or start yelling at everyone within 10 feet
Eh. Just let it out. A lot indeed.
