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Would you want to know if your partner was cheating on you? Why or why not?


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YES so I could break up with him (and kick him in the balls)


Yes, this is very important. I would like to know the reason why he did it and since when. I want to know if the reason for his cheating was because I didnt do something for our relationship or I did something wrong. Though, I would prefer for him to tell me before doing it. In any case, cheating is intolerable for me so I would break up with him.


Yes. Because I think I have the right to know and decide what I want to do next.



Yeah I would want to know. Rather be straight up than play games with someone's feelings


Yes, I would want to know but I would hope we would be open with these kind of things before one of us decided to have a relationship with someone else. That seems fair.


Yes. She's monogamous and we're in love so-


Yes... So I could dump him and beat him up and kill his fish.


Yes so I could leave them and get myself into a better relationship.


Cheating would the hardest things for me to forgive but I'd still want to know because otherwise I'd look foolish.


Yes. But he better not ever cheat on me!



si. Porque así intentaría arreglar las cosas para que no lo vuelva a hacer. a parte de saber que esta mal en mi


Yes. Of course. Not to fight, not to break up with him but to use that information to hopefully satisfy whatever lack had developed in our relationship. A lot of times when men cheat, it's a cry for help. Their heart isn't even in it. And they really want to be with who they love but have issues with relationships they've inherited from their parents, or angry they're carrying from a past hurt or betrayal that is still fresh and smarting, like a new wound or a bad burn. Perhaps it will be the pa


Sure I guess? Why not tell imaginary stories? That's not something that would happen.


No I wouldn't like to know it. Because it would hurt me and I would feel insecure about you. It could destroy our relationship so I better don't want to know it if it was just sex..


Of course I would. But I have no doubt about him ever doing that. I feel like he loves me with his whole heart and I feel that if he didn't feel satisfied with me he would tell me.



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