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Icebreakers
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![Female, 31-35 years, Dating, NC, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Definitely think we will make all big decisions together. We're very 50/50
![Female, >50 years, Dating, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Probably him more so than I, I think
![Male, 41-50 years, Married, TX, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Me wife! She makes the important ones cuz if it were up to me I'd pick the dumb one lol
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Jesseee
![Female, 41-50 years, Married, VA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Him!
![Male, 36-40 years, Dating, MO, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
she def is
![Female, 36-40 years, Dating, MO, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
At least he isn't upset about that :)
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, MO, US | Aug 10, 2013
Female, 36-40 years, Dating, MO, US | Aug 10, 2013
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![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Me. But really her. No. It's us together.
![Male or Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_b_xsmall.png)
Both she is my partner!!! Duhhh lol
![Female, 26-30 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Hahaha. We usually have to talk it over. Neither of us like to make decisions, so any big decision has to be carried by both of us. I'm really thankful that it's like this. It makes us a lot closer v
![Female, 41-50 years, Dating, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
We both do
![Male, 31-35 years, Dating, WA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
We'd talk it through thoroughly, fully expressing our doubts and thoughts on the matter. Then we'd make a joint decision.
![Male, 26-30 years, Married](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
it's split. we each have strengths so we usually talk it
out.
out.
![Female, 36-40 years, Engaged, PH](/img2/other_pic_f_xsmall.png)
Him. No matter how it seems like it is me from time to time, but he's got the ultimatum.. & all my other decisions becomes petty.
![Male, 36-40 years, Dating](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
I think both I run everything past her and vice versa
![Male, >50 years, Dating, CA, US](/img2/other_pic_m_xsmall.png)
Both together